Guilt in Self and Healthy Relationships

Shame can influence your entire life. This can leave you with a sense of not being good enough or inadequate. A person that experiences shame often will have a desire to control. This is often brought on by a drive for safety and respect. Since one has no control over shameful experiences of one’s life, one may have a desire to make sure their life will be free from unconstrained behavior and surprise, which could bring on a shameful experience. The one, which truly suffers, is the individual. Many times when one becomes aware of one’s shame, they may tend to rebuke; belittle; or have unmercifully acts. Today humans see shame as a guilt that comes when one violates the …

Southern Superstitions

Some people call beliefs in luck and the measures one should take to prevent bad luck and encourage good luck nothing more that superstition. Others say that these beliefs are based upon experience of our ancestors and are, in fact, much more than just superstition. They say that these sayings and beliefs are actually the wisdom of the ages, and that the warnings should be heeded. Which school of thought is right? I don’t know, and the fact is that nobody else knows either. How can it be positively stated that going out a different door than the one you entered by did NOT cause the bad luck that followed or that using the same door to enter and leave …