Love and Attachment

… reactions and interactions in the female body. It also plays a role in bonding and social identification as well. When the female body is stimulated to release this chemical when the person feels trust, love and maternal instincts. It is also found in the plasma of both women and men during orgasms. It’s the chemical oxytocin that makes one feel content, reduction in anxiety as well as promoting calmness and security in relation to a mate. Vasopressin is released during sexual activity. …

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Defining Love

Love is something that is abstract but heartfelt as an emotion. It is expressed according to how we view the idea of it. Regardless of who we are and where we are in the universe love comes down to a deep feeling of affection that one person has for another. There are different types of love in expressing that affection. People express love by giving and receiving it in different ways. Love can be between friends, platonic, romantic, sexual, humanitarian, religious to name a few types of this …

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Attraction and Love

… another person. When two people are attracted to each other they both experience the PEA rush. This is where we hear about people being “dizzy in love” or “weak in the knees”. This is all because of the chemical interaction in our brains and bodies that occurs upon what we find someone attractive. Along with PEA is another chemical Dopamine which is also released. The combination of these two chemicals gives us the feeling of wanting to be close to the person we are attracted to. They …

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What is True Love

… they have something in their teeth its different.) 3. Other people are optional-meaning you prefer the company of this person over all others. It doesn’t mean you cut people off in your life at all. What it means is that you would just rather be with the one you love and choose to do so. There is nothing wrong with it; and most people who don’t have true love in their lives don’t understand this. Also when you find true love you are not interested in meeting new people you are …

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The Chemistry of Love

The word “chemistry” in relation to love is used because of the chemical reactions that love sets off in our brains. When we first lay eyes on someone that we are attracted to; we do so because of the physical attraction that makes us look at them. If we feel more than just a recognition of the physical to that person then the brain releases chemicals to signal to us that this may be more. The brain distinguishes the type of reaction to an attraction we may have. The chemical reaction is an …

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The Characteristics of Being “In Love”

When someone falls “in love” it’s a process that’s based on various stages. Psychologists and scientists attribute the ability of falling in love to our “limbic systems” and “limbic resonance”. It is the limbic system that enables two people to have what is referred to as mutual chemistry when they are “in love”. Limbic resonance enables one person to tune into another’s state of emotions and feel what they are feeling. When two people are in love; their Limbic …

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Our First Responses with Initial Attractions

When we meet someone or see someone for the first time; what we see physically stimulates us either in a negative or positive way in regards to that person. If it’s the opposite sex we are looking at; it’s our brains that look at the person with interest or not as a possible relationship. Our brains respond by what is called the sexual arousal or lust phase of love. If we experience an attraction it induces a bio chemical response to the sighting. If we are not attracted to someone …

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Love and the Limbic System

… that person. The limbic system is responsible for that feeling we call butterflies in our stomachs. Through the limbic system which is part of the automatic nervous response system; our attraction towards someone we connect with; grows in to being “in love” with them. This can happen almost on the spot if the chemistry is right. However love at first sight is not the norm. The limbic system signals to us that we may not feel attraction at first sight to someone. It lets us know that the …

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Love and The Brains First Three Stages

… a need . Our bodies see love as a fight or flight need that has to be addressed as such because of our wiring. Look at what happens when we are attracted to someone as a case in point. We either fight for their love or run from it depending on how we feel about the person after our initial contact with them. All those feelings are part of a biochemical reaction that occurs from out automatic response systems. From an evolutionary stand point our brain functions on three different levels in …

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Get them excited on the First Date

When you have been talking to someone online for a time you both may decide to take the next step with a real life date. Online dating can be very beneficial but without a good connection in real life, you cannot move onto something more with long lasting potential. Many people are concerned about moving from online dating to dating in real life. It can be very dangerous. Online daters also need to worry about the other person not being honest about them. The best thing that you can do is …

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If I want to date with my office mate…

Love or any of its elements seem to bloom in any place- even the places you least expect it to grow in. Workplace? It is not that impossible at all. It is even one of the best venues to search for a prospect life partner since one is more aware of what this other person is. You work with that person so you get to know more of him inside and out. On the second thought, is it a bed of roses in all angles? The answer is of course- NO. In whatever form of romance story, there will always be these …

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Know the Facts of Online Dating

Online dating is getting very popular and if you would like to join this world, there are a few things that you should keep in mind. As with the other aspects of life, you will have more success if you follow the rules of the game and treat other people with respect. Some people may not realize these rules but in the end it will mean the difference between you getting the date and continuing to be single. If you find an attractive picture online, it is ok to tell the person that you think …

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Meeting Safely

… in certain situations. Use common sense when you are meeting someone in person for the first time ever. First, you should suggest that the date take place in a very public area. Restaurants are a great place to start and give you a chance to talk to more than a movie date will. You can also suggest that you go to other public places as long as they are not too secluded. Concerts work well for example but walks in the park are not recommended since there are often wooded areas in which your …

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In Preparation for the Big Date . . .

… who are having a “get to know each other date”, it is advisable to have an early date so that rushing plans to make the time special may not happen. There could still be that romantic touch though the sun is out. Evening dates may come after the first date. * Think more of the person not the place. Pressures about the venue, the food to order and the clothes you would wear. These are just secondary and they do not have to post so much pressure on you. If you allow this to happen, you would …

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Risks of Online Dating

Dating seems to be a very exciting term. It would mean a new phase of a person’s life a head. Whatever the purpose of dating is, one must always be responsible and by all means be cautious about being into this kind of activity. Since you are getting involved with unknown individuals, you must equip your self with the necessary protection or security whatever risks there are. Yes, there are risks… Online dating is of course, safe from outside risks since it happens with a distance between …

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How to Ask Someone Out on a Date

No more hesitations, this is the moment you have been dreaming of and only you could push it to reality. But, how could you have that dream date? Of course, you have to start from the top. And, that is to ask the person you are interested out on a date. Well, how could you invite a person out? Do you need to be aggressive? Do you need to play safe? Tips to ask someone out would surely be a great help for you. The following are simple but very essential tips you could lean on in times that you …

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Online Dating: Meeting for the First Time

It is fun to date online- you get to imagine what the person you are talking to is like. There may be web cameras and headsets that would lead you to knowing the other person closer but of course, meeting in person is far different from online dating. Just like the typical setting in our mind, it is really stressful to know that one day, you are going to meet and go out on a date with the person you used to chat with only. How would you be impressive? What would you do so that it will not be …

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